It’s a doc that has info I think will help you get a better sense of whether we should go on a date.
I’m doing it because while, yeah, I get it, it’s kinda weird (unusual), I think life partnership is one of the most special things. So, I’m taking this chapter of my life seriously; giving you a fuller picture of who I am and what I’m looking for feels like an authentic way to meet my person and start off our relationship open-heartedly :)
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Age 37, height 5’10”
Live in San Francisco 🌞; Grew up in Harrisburg, PA
Undergrad at Penn in chemical engineering & econ
Looking for my amazing life partner — and excited to be theirs!
Monogamous, but flexible-ish
Masculine, Dom energy; pretty neurotypical; score high on openness-to-new-experience and extraversion
Secure attachment; emotional communicator par excellence
Want kids (never married nor engaged but want them both!) Relationship experience includes long-term relationships and shorter ones.
Learning and personal growth; reading and writing. All the science (especially psych, political science, philosophy); good fiction and film.
In the last few years I’ve learned how to: surf, mountain bike, code, ocean swim, play the Native American flute 🪈, and get a lot better at non-violent communication. Currently (badly) learning how to sing.
Running, cycling, ecstatic dancing, camping, open water swimming, yoga, walking.
Travel, festivals, hot springs, massage. Dark chocolate. Dogs. Photography. Eating healthy. Trees and flowers. Dim lighting at night.
Friend walks & dinner parties.
Laughing. If we’re not laughing, ngmi.
Love languages: verbal & physical affection, quality time. Acts of service.
Big into both. It feels empowering to be strong and active; connective and abundant to be in beautiful nature spaces.
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Special breakout session because music and dance are a major way I appreciate beauty.